House Exchange Is New To All
October 25th, 2009 |Who we are and how we live have come to be represented by the houses we live in. This is what makes doing a vacation home exchange so interesting. You place yourself in a home and neighborhood that someone else lives in, and for a short while you can almost live as they do. Small things like the size of the yard, whether or not there is a pool and the cleanliness of the street can all be factors in how we perceive ourselves and other people. Home swapping makes those differences stand out and we can find out whether or not they really matter.
Owning a house gives people roots and creates communities where certain ideas and concepts of life get formed. Therefore, people are defined by where they live. When people exchange homes, they get a chance to see how life is led by different people by living where they live. It is not the same when you go to a new place and stay in a hotel; there, you are always separate and have a clear status of being temporary. When you stay in someone else’s home, you get a real sense of how people live in that particular area, whether it is another country or a different part of the state where you reside.
People who are willing to engage in home swaps as part of their vacation are taking a big risk. Sharing houses opens people up to a lot of judgment on how they live and what type of people they are. Whether this kind of judgment and analysis is right is irrelevant; even subconsciously people will make assumptions about your character based on where you live and how you live. You need to be quite secure and comfortable with who you are as a person to let someone else into your home, especially if it is for a period of weeks rather than hours. And remember, you won’t be there to guide your visitors through, shaping their perceptions with what you choose to reveal.
Houses are basically a large way of representing our personalities and tastes. This is most evident when people opt for a vacation house exchange, because they get to treat the new space as their own, yet it is still obviously someone else’s. Lots of judgments are made when looking at and staying in another home, but a home exchange extends that experience and will hopefully give people the perspective to consider what their own home says about them.
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